Questions people ask before they call.

The mediation itself is a conversation, but what comes out of it is real. Once you reach agreement, it is written into a formal Memorandum of Understanding, which becomes the settlement agreement filed with the court. Once signed and incorporated into your judgment, it is fully enforceable.

You are not required to have one, but you are always free to. Many couples have a review attorney read the agreement before signing — that is encouraged. What you avoid is two lawyers running the entire divorce against each other.

That is common, and it is not disqualifying. Mediation is structured precisely so that difficult conversations stay productive. Sessions have an agenda, and Amy manages the room. If needed, sessions can be held with each of you in separate spaces.

No. A mediator is neutral by definition and does not represent either spouse. Amy’s job is to make sure the process is fair, the information is complete, and both of you understand what you are agreeing to.

Most matters resolve in roughly three to six sessions over a few months, depending on complexity and how quickly financial documents come together. You control the pace — there is no docket forcing dates on you.

Substantially less in nearly every case, because you are paying one neutral rather than funding two litigating attorneys. Fees are discussed openly in the first conversation so there are no surprises.

Yes. Mediation is private. Discussions are confidential and do not become part of a public court record the way contested filings do.

Often, yes. Couples frequently move to mediation after starting a contested case and realizing where it is heading. It is worth a conversation before assuming it is too late.

Nothing formal. The first meeting is about understanding your situation and explaining the process. Amy will tell you exactly which financial documents to gather afterward.